Wednesday, June 11, 2008

爱的五种语言


前天晚上在网上与一个身在澳洲好久没联络的中学朋友聊MSN,聊到两性之间的沟通话题时,她介绍我一本觉得对她自己有很大帮助的书。书名是“爱的五种语言” The Five Love Languages.

于是,昨天跟几个房友去1u购物的时候,也顺便去搜寻这本书。抱着期望不大会搜寻到的态度去看看走走,果然第一间书局POPULAR,没有下落。接着就去另外一间MPH,在那里也找了很久,最后无意中看到,就满怀喜悦,原本打算买英文版,但是问了店员后,被告知只是有中文版,所以,就决定买这本由Gary Chapman编写的爱的五种语言,价格是RM20,不是太贵,打算在假期看完它。

另外一个原因会购买这本书是因为曾经启荣传道有在查经会讲道的时候用过这本书的一些内容,他也很推荐这本书给大专生阅读。另外,我自己也觉得本身也是需要更加的了解男女人际关系上应该要有怎么样的行动或互动,才能促进彼此之间的感情和保持良好关系。人际关系是一门很大且终生学习的功课,这是刚刚从clara的部落格看到的,也赞同这样的说法。因此,也向大家推荐这本书,虽然我还没开始看,但是我期待书里面的内容是对大家都有很大帮助的吧!


爱的五种语言:

1. 肯定的言词

2. 精心的时刻

3. 接受礼物

4. 服务的行动

5. 身体的接触


Wednesday, June 4, 2008

送机-美国之旅

4 June 2008, 10pm
Waiting for kawai to fetch me to KLIA at 1 utama. Because there’s a rain at evening, so the weather is quite cold. But then, on the way to KLIA feel quite hot, cause maybe of the small aircon, but feel confortable about the new car own by kawai. Saw a lot of cars queueing into petrol station, cause received the news of increasing price for the petrol after 12 midnite. Because of this, there is serious traffic jam everywhere. But then, took about 1 hour only to reach airport.

4 June 2008, 11pm ++
Arriving airport, saw ricky’s nervous looks, felt nervous too. Saw Daniel at MAC Donald with his family (going US still eat Macd? Haha..) then after that saw Hui san (she’s one of their member to US). Meet Kelly at about 11.30pm, check in in their all laggage, found out that kelly’s laggage is overloaded, then have to take out some things, took about 20 minutes to settle this. Waiting for another friend, ong to come, worrying that he might be late, cause almost reach the boarding time, thanks God he reached before 5 minutes of the check in before 1 hour boarding time.
4 June 2008, around 12pm
After check in, then we took some photos before saying goodbye to them.
Ricky, me and daniel
Ricky, daniel, kelly, kawai, and ong
ricky, daniel, kelly, choy, sim, and ong
me and kelly

Jus like what RIcky said, enjoy our life here, cause they will enjoy their life at US too!
and God bless u all;)
Thanks kelly, take care too:) miss you
thanks kawai fetch me go and back.


short video taken to share with u all.. (thanks sim!)

Monday, June 2, 2008

考完试咯!

转眼间,到了年中六月头,SP短宣回来后,才知觉到原来原来自己考完试了!真的好开心:)


终于可以放松下来了,这种感觉很好,就好象忙碌了很久,拼了很久,终于可以歇会儿了,感谢上帝一路的带领,看顾,虽然考试时期艰难,考的试卷也是有year2的水准了,但是还是凭着上帝的恩典,给了我健康,努力,还有一群study group的朋友们的支持,终于一张一张的渡过了这些paper。。




考试期间,真的很谢谢我的一班朋友为我庆祝我23岁的生日。真的很开心的生日,因为我很喜欢这种热闹开心的感觉,大家在考试期间愿意放下自己的重担,来轻松的吃一顿饭。这种感觉很不错哦!







谢谢的朋友们有:brian,ong,sim,ricky,kelly,yap,kawai,senggiap。除了谢谢你们一起为我庆祝,也谢谢你们一起和我study group渡过final exam,thanks lots:)



刚刚从sungai petani短宣回来,就还是很累,睡了一整天还是补不回来流失了两天的睡眠。我只是去两天两夜这样,更何况是另外19名的大专生们去了一整个星期,每一天都只是睡3到4个小时,早上又很早起身,看到每一个人都变了一个样,变了一把另外一种沉重的声音,希望快快好起来啦哈哈:P



短宣期间我是负责life game,一个人生游戏,我负责其中的一个part,叫funfair,给中学生们和AIMST大专生们参与,反应还算ok吧,他们都很乐意参与,拼命赚钱,然后就买房子买车子结婚啊等等的,也让他们去思考人生的意义,很有意思。



至于现在3个月多的假期正式开始了,我要开始安排时间表来度过我的日子了,希望是能够安排好好的,过着有意义的生活啦。 放假这么久,我没有那么早回家乡,会先逗留在学校与同学一起找老师去安排做一些实习这样。然后,想参与八月尾美佳堂举办的一个退休营,在马六甲,希望会是一个不错的体验吧;)



至于要去美国的朋友们,你们要好好坚强哦!加油!!:)

Friday, April 18, 2008

忙碌,忙碌,再忙碌。。


五月尾的考试时间表出来了,考到30号,还好还来得及去SP的短宣,今年不可以miss掉了,感谢神让我有这个机会。。
最近很忙,跟朋友们拟定了group study的时间表,放在拜六礼拜,几乎每一天都在拼,我要好好努力了!在4月份到五月头,都在赶着assignment,在这段时间内要赶完大约9个assignment!苦笑苦笑哈哈,还好有朋友们和我一起讨论一起一步一步的做完,真的很谢谢你们!

4月18号的今天,交了两份assignments和一份lab report,好在星期五不用顾虑到明天的上课,但是还是跟朋友们约了拜六早上去学校做lab,他们真的很努力,要好好向他们学习了!
其实真的很感恩,因为在昨天-要交一个lab报告的最后一天,我们都没有什么头绪会做一些题目,但是就在昨天下午,我跟随kelly和ong去computer centre看他们的一些资料,然后我坐在他们旁边的一架开着的电脑前,那是我的另一个朋友开着的,他在print着东西,然后我就借用他用的那个电脑来找一些资料来做这个即将要交的报告,然后很快,我就找到了让我们眼睛一亮“登”!的资料,然后就有了一些眉目,真感谢神哈哈。。
接下来的日子会蛮辛苦的了。。我们一起好好加油吧!



Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Amazing Race

The combination of amazing race + fear factor = amazing race
and our group name is 'Indigo-less', due to lack of indigo in rainbow colors..
six members: 1J 4K 1D - Jackie(me), Kawai, kelly, kelvin, kahJoe, and Daniel:
red-kelly
orange-kelvin
yellow-jackie
green-kawai
blue- daniel
purple-kahJoe

Forgot who suggest this post? haha abit regret

taking photos with other teams - FAB5, indigo-less, and another team dunno what name.. stil classmates even tho different teams..

at last we lost, even with wet shirt and tiredness.. but still enjoying lots


eh.. designed by kawai.. he is quite wu liao, but then thanks a lot.. making this..

see, she's the only girl in our team! dun u think tat we look like Mac D color?

traffic light color

Indigo-less, red orange yellow green blue purple

You dare to eat these worms? but then not going to eat them, just put ur hand in and look for the red bean..

心的距离









Friday, April 4, 2008

小婿祝祥唯生日快乐!~

一段简单的庆祝。。
毫无防备的笑声。。
带来简单的幸福。。
因为朋友的陪伴。。
就有那种的温暖。。

小婿和两个娘子们。。
生日蛋糕,delicious~
许愿许愿。。希望。。。。蜡烛不要灭
eheh?你们在?分配蛋糕。。
来跟你们的祥爸爸拍一张。。
婷婷玉立,少不了冰凉的,就是圣洁的坐在对面。。冷~不要打我。。
大合照!
从左上到右:小婿礼,阿弟,洁娘子,
中左到右:娘子的爱人,阿弟的爸,利励多尼,
下左到右:冰娘子,猪爸爸
简单的祝福,gengki shushi我一个人吃了30块!不过满足啦:P
生日蛋糕很好吃,不过那个时候很饱了,不过还是幸福幸福。。
生日快乐咯;)